Understanding the EMDR Therapy Journey to Healing
- jcardozalmft
- Apr 16
- 2 min read

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a powerful therapeutic approach designed to help individuals process trauma and distressing life experiences. Through its structured phases and use of metaphors, EMDR enables healing by leveraging the brain's natural adaptive information processing mechanism.
The EMDR Therapy Journey
EMDR therapy consists of eight phases, each integral to the healing process. Safety is the cornerstone of this journey, ensuring clients feel secure as they explore their experiences.
The therapy kicks off by getting to know the client's background and helping them feel ready. During this time, they learn about their nervous system and build up some resilience resources. After that, the focus shifts to specific memories from the past, present, or even future, which we call "targets" and "reprocessing." These steps are often seen as the "active" parts of EMDR Therapy.
Metaphors and Healing

Metaphors play a crucial role in EMDR, helping clients visualize and understand their journey. One common metaphor likens the process to a train or car ride, where the client is in control, able to start, stop, or adjust the pace as needed. This imagery empowers clients, allowing them to navigate through their trauma at a comfortable speed.
Some EMDR Concepts Explained
Preparation and Assessment: Clients prepare for trauma work by learning about their nervous system, building inner and outer resources, and engaging curiosity.
Reprocessing Phases: These phases involves dual attention and the use of what is called bi-lateral stimulation (BLS) which helps move activate the adaptive processing mechanisms to aid in the mind-body adapt and "metabolize" distressing memories, akin to watching a fast-forwarded movie. It aims to "unstick" the trauma.
Re-evaluation and Aftercare: Each session concludes with re-evaluation, ensuring the therapy is effective and adjusting the plan as needed. Aftercare includes ongoing support and nurturing the nervous system.
Post-Session Reflections
After sessions, clients are encouraged to journal new insights, access support, and

inform therapists of any challenges. This continuous processing fosters long-term healing and growth.
Through EMDR, clients can transform their 'yuck' and 'ick' experiences into new changes, ultimately leading to a calm, alert, and oriented state. By understanding and participating in this structured journey, individuals can find relief and move towards a healthier future.
For more information on EMDR therapy, visit the International Association of EMDR Therapists at www.emdria.org
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